Monthly Archives: October 2014

How is it that some people have stronger will power than others?

BismillahirRahmanirRahim Question: Some people have a stronger will power than others to step on their ego. It is effortless for them to step on their ego. How is it that some people have stronger will power than others? What makes … Continue reading

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How does one know if they are on the right path?

BismillahirRahmanirRahim  Question: How does one know if they are on the right path? How do you know if you are on the right path? When you know that the direction that you are going is going to lead you to Paradise … Continue reading

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What is the best way to thoroughly purify oneself and to consciously do so every single day?

BismillahirRahmanirRahim Question: What is the best way to thoroughly purify oneself and to consciously do so every single day? You cannot purify yourself consciously every single day. That is ego. Be humble. Step by step. Start small. Don’t sleep too … Continue reading

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Happiness According To The Creator of Happiness

BismillahirRahmanirRahim Alhamdulillah. Another Holy Day that Allah swt, our Creator, He is granting to us. Another blessing that He has given us for free. Allah is not asking anything in return. He has created everything for the service of man. … Continue reading

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How does this Ahir Zaman affect a person and who is qualified to enter Tarikat?

BismillahirRahmanirRahim Question : Due to loneliness sometimes, I fell into ghaflet or I lose concentration on what I have to do. I try as much and I would like to know how the surrounding affects a person? How does this … Continue reading

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Ashura: Compare ourselves to those who came before us

BismillahirRahmanirRahim All praises are due to Allah swt, the Lord of the Universes. All praises are due to Allah, who is One. All praises are due to Allah, the Eternal, the Absolute. All praises are due to Allah, who is … Continue reading

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Man has lost their direction

BismillahirRahmanirRahim The faith is a reponsiblity. The religion it is a responsibility. It is not something light. It is not a joke. It is not as you like, as you wish Sufism.  No, It is a heavy responsibility and every … Continue reading

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If this dunya is fitna, why was this world created?

BismillahirRahmanirRahim Question: If this dunya is fitna, why was this world created? So that we will not be destroyed by fitna. The whole idea of fitna is for us to move inside and through it and out. You understand? What … Continue reading

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Can you share some of Sheykh Abdul Kerim Effendi’s experiences from his trip to the Hajj?

BismillahirRahmanirRahim Question: Can you share some of Sheykh Abdul Kerim Effendi’s experiences from his trip to the Hajj? Let me give a small example. When you are in the Haram e-Sharif, in the Holy lands, don’t  interfere into anything. Because … Continue reading

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What are the basic responsibilities of a mureeda toward her parents who are against dergah?

BismillahirRahmanirRahim Question: What are the basic responsibilities of a mureeda toward her parents who are against dergah? The basic responsibilities, you have to respect them. You cannot disrespect them. If they ask for your help, you have to help them. Responsibilities … Continue reading

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How can someone be forgiven after consuming alcohol?

BismillahirRahmanirRahim Question: How can someone be forgiven after consuming alcohol? Allah is the One who is going to forgive. You are not going to go to someone to confess and that someone to say, ‘Oh, you are okay. I’m going … Continue reading

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Eid ul-Adha : The Way Of Islam Is The Way Of Sacrifice

BismillahirRahmanirRahim Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillahi rabbil alamin wasalatu wa salamu ala Rasulina Muhammadin wa ala alihi wa Sahbihi ajmain nahmadulllahu ta’ala wa nastaghfiruhu wa nashadu an-lailaha ilallahu wahdahu la sharika lah wa nashadu anna sayyidina muhammadin abduhu wa habibuhu wa Rasuluhu Salallahu … Continue reading

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What can I do to make me get back on track to make my heart work again?

BismillahirRahmanirRahim Question: I feel very disconnected, when my heart wants to connect it does but I continue with my daily life, I have left the daily wird and finding it hard to start again. I feel that I am making a … Continue reading

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What am I supposed to focus on while making Zikr and Salawat?

BismillahirRahmanirRahim Question: What am I supposed to focus on while making zikr and salawat? A Sohbet means association. Now, when you are making a zikr, if it is a loud zikr, this is for everyone, if it is a loud zikr, … Continue reading

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Work to open the right side window of your grave to Paradise

BismillahirRahmanirRahim Tarikatuna Sohbet vel Khayri fil Jamia.This Tarikat is based on association, and goodness comes from association. We are asking support from our Sheykh, SahibulSaif Sheykh Abd Kerim al-Kibrisi al-Rabbani to send us something that is going to benefit us, … Continue reading

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What is mountain of Qaff?

BismillahirRahmanirRahim Question: What is mountain of Qaff? That is a secret place. It is not as people think it is. You come here and I’ll talk to you about it. These things are not for everyone to know and to be busy … Continue reading

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