What is the proper Adab when visiting the Friends of Allah?


Question: What is the proper Adab when visiting the Friends of Allah?

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BismillahirRahmanirRahim. If you visit the friends of Allah, if you are visiting their maqam it is different, if you are visiting a living friend of Allah then that is slightly different. You say, you believe that this person he is a friend of Allah and he is alive, he is living and he is a friend of Allah, watch your heart and watch your manners. Don’t be too comfortable. Although he may make you feel very comfortable, use your intelligence. Come with sincerity and come with manners.

Come to serve. Don’t come in his presence to be served. You have nothing to give, you have nothing to do, just to give him a glass of water, that is service. And that time, it’s easy for him to pray because Allah is looking for those ones into their hearts and whatever they ask, Allah will grant. They don’t worship and they don’t pray, they don’t ask for themselves, anyway. They ask for everyone else. And when you are there, don’t be heedless. Observe them and watch them. I know some people, they visit the friends of Allah, I know some people they visit Sultanul Awliya, and they are busy reciting salawats in front of him. Are you reciting salawats or are you visiting someone? If you visit someone, be busy with visiting. Why are you reciting salawats? You are reciting it twenty-four hours a day that you cannot turn it off?

We have to know the manners. Enter properly, sit properly. Listen properly. Ask for his prayers. What are you going to ask? Why you want to see a friend of Allah? That is another question. So many they want to see the friends of Allah because their problems, just dunya kind of problems. Not because of their faith. Know what to ask, because the problems that you have with your dunya, they know already and they are praying for you. You don’t really need to ask. But if you are  asking to make yourself to become better person, to step on your ego, that’s something that is very useful for you, they may pray better for you.

No need to show off. No need to show off to them. I know some people visiting Sheykh Effendi, saying, ‘O Sheykh Effendi, I do this much zikr. I read this much Quran everyday. Every month I do this.’ Why do you want to? You are visiting a friend of Allah because he is a friend of Allah. He is close to his Lord, to our Lord. And Allah is saying, ‘seek the means to come close to Me.’ And they are the means to come close to Allah swt. Ask them to pray for you. That’s enough. And say, ask Allah that: I may be forgiven. That’s what I will do, and that I can be a useful one. Because now that you ask for forgiveness, what else is there? Then what? Then for us to become useful, for us to serve in the way of Haqq, Insya’Allah. Fatiha.

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Sheykh Lokman Efendi Hz,
Khalifah of SahibulSaif Shaykh Abdulkerim el Kibrisi (qs),
29 Shawwal 1436H
August 14, 2015

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