Dua – Know what you’re asking and why you’re asking


So somebody is asking, when you’re making dua to Allah, asking Him, for example, to get rid of your egoistic characteristics, is it enough just to say, ‘Ya Rabbi, rid me of my arrogance,’ or should you be specific with that arrogance?

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Dua is putting in a request. But you must know what that request is. You know, when you put in a request, say, you want to return something back to a company, you buy something that you don’t like and you want to return. Everything that is in that product, is on the invoice, you have to have an invoice, no? This is from here, going back to this one; this is the product- you don’t have to give a full description, what it is, why you don’t want it, especially in America. You don’t like it you just return it, you don’t have to give a reason. But everything is there in the invoice. It’s there in the dua. Everything is there. But you have to know what is there, it cannot be an empty box that you just send a slip of paper and there’s nothing there.

Tafakkur is different, the dua is different. You can make the dua when you’re making the tafakkur, because the tafakkur now, you are opening yourself up, you are looking to see how dirty it is. ‘This part is dirty, this part is clean, this is dirty from that time, this is dirty from this time, this got dirty today because I said this.’ You are looking, you are understanding everything, and then you make the dua, ‘ya Rabbi, please help me to clean this.’ But you cannot just say, ‘help me to clean myself,’ and you’re not doing any of that looking, investigating, tafakkur. You’re not doing any of that. That is empty, because you are returning with an empty box. You’re saying, ‘oh, help me get rid of arrogance,’ but you’re not understanding what is the arrogance that you have.

You must know. You don’t know, someone is going to teach you. That’s why we’re in Tarikat, that’s why we are following a guide. So that that one is going to teach you. You are not able to see yourself, your anger, you’re not able to see yourself. So many people, I’m seeing they’re so angry, but it’s just their way of doing it. But it is not the sunnat. You cannot say, ‘this is my style.’ It’s not the sunnat. No one can say, ‘this is me. You cannot change, this is me.’ Who are you? What are you? You think you’re worth something, that you say, ‘I am me’? Who is saying that? Ego is saying ‘I am me’. Not the spirit. So what are you, ego or the spirit? ‘Ego, I am me.’ You belong to the fire. Because Allah SWT called the ego and called the spirit and He is saying, ‘who am I and who are you?’ And the ego is saying, ‘You are You and I am me.’ And the spirit is saying, ‘You are my Lord and my Creator and I am Your servant.’ Ego is separating. The spirit knows the relationship, the connection. Ego is saying, ‘we are apart.’ The Spirit is saying, ‘we are close.’

If you are not studying, if you are not knowing your sickness, you cannot get a proper cure. You must, in this way now, you’re going to learn. Doctor may tell you and the doctor is going to say, ‘it is like this.’ The pain is here, but it’s because of this that the pain is here. You think the pain is here because of something else. You are wrong, the doctor knows. So, yes, be in dua with your Lord. Tafakkur, it is connected. One hour of meditation it is better than seventy years of worship. Now the one who is making tafakkur, he is going to put himself under a microscope, not putting other people. Some they are so caught up, their way is just to complain about other people, talk bad about, making fun of other people, doing that. Don’t have the characteristics of the munafiq. Because the munafiq, when the Holy Prophet (asws) is speaking, giving sohbet, they are back there going hee hee hee, laughing, hee hee hee. Disrupting everything, correct or no? This is the characteristic. Now, when there is a gathering, when there is a majlis, either you‘re part of the majlis or you’re out. You’re not going to stay there looking at each other, finding friends to say, ‘look over there, ha ha ha.’ Don’t. This is all characteristics of sheytan.

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You’re not studying yourself, you’re not knowing, you’re so used to it, it’s so much a part of you it blinds you. You have come to the wrong place. You want to stay to be blinded, don’t enter into this place. You want to open your eyes, come to this place and we will say, ‘look, this is not good. You continue with this without fixing yourself, you’re going to be in very big trouble.’

Especially in this month. We’re supposed to catch ourselves in this month. We’re supposed to take a break from our ego and from our sheytan in this month. Not just from food and drink. From our wrong characteristics.

To say, ‘oh, how light I feel that I’m not gossiping and slandering twenty-four hours. How light I feel that I’m not being arrogant twenty four hours because I have no energy to do it anyway. How light it feels that I’m not getting myself to be upset.’ This is the month that you’re supposed to hold yourself and check yourself. Don’t be in illusion and delusion. You don’t know, I’m going to tell you. Stop from all of this, otherwise all that light that you have collected will be taken away from you. You may be white, but you’ll be very black. Learn. Fix yourselves. Easy way or hard way we have to fix ourselves.

So ask. But you must know what you’re asking and why you’re asking. Like what the khutba is saying, what are we asking for this month? So many are going to be asking just for their own selfish, egoistic desires. Their small things, their dunya. Because their dunya is limitless, because they watch that sheytan box television, it’s limitless, now they want that. And all the Muslim leaders they are showing limitless luxury kind of lifestyle, they say there’s nothing wrong with it. Following Jews and Christians to say, ‘the more Allah loves you the more He’s going to give you the dunya.’ What are they calling it in Christianity? Huh? Prosperity gospel. You don’t know that? Huh, you guys are on Facebook twenty four hours you don’t even know these things? Prosperity gospel, they’re saying, ‘a sign that our Lord loves us is when we become more rich, more rich.’ I say, which Prophet you’re following?

None of the Prophets are. A couple of them, they were rulers and they were kings, they were showing that majesty like Daud (as) and Suleyman (as). But inside the palaces, like the Ottoman sultans, they were living like dervishes. How can you have a life of luxury, like Daud (as), if one day you fast and one day you eat the next day you fast, the next day you eat… How can you have a life of luxury if you’re doing that? You think that one, that Suleyman (as) that he is able to command the winds, meaning the ones from the other, creatures from the other worlds, that he commands them, he cares about the dunya? He cares about the gold and the silver and the diamonds that everyone is running after today, when he can enter and he can have control over those worlds? No. Which is why that Christian priest, when he saw Sheykh Abdul Qadir Geylani (QS) walking with his majesty, walking with his richness, the one jubbah that he is wearing it is worth hundreds and thousands of dollars, let’s say, and he’s coming with a lot of rich people, and he’s saying, ‘look at this one.’ In his heart he is saying, ‘he is saying that he is a holy person but he’s wearing the dunya and he’s so rich like this?’

Sheykh Abdul Qadir Geylani stopped walking, looked to that Christian priest, who was wearing, you know, the priest outfit with a rope around. That’s why actually in shariat it is not permissible for us to wear a rope around outside like that. And he says, ‘you, come.’ He read his heart. And he says, ‘look into the sleeve of my jubbah.’ The priest was shocked. He came to him and looked into his right hand jubbah sleeve. He looked inside and he screamed. He screamed, his spirit left him, he fall down dead. The Sheykh then took his cane, he says, ‘get up.’ The priest got up again. ‘Now look into my left sleeve.’ He looked inside, he started screaming. He is screaming because that is the only way, because the spirit is coming out. He died, he fell down again and the Sheiyh says, ‘get up. Now say to the people.’ He got up, he kissed the Sheykhs feet, saying, ‘you must be Allah.’ He says, ‘stop. Don’t. That’s the trouble with you people.’ He says, ‘I am just a servant of Allah, and Allah wishes to dress His servants in this. But I’m still a servant.’ Then he says, ‘say, what you saw.’ And the man said, ‘I looked into your sleeve because in my heart I was having bad thoughts about you.’

Understand how important it is not to even have bad thoughts in your hearts for the Awliya Allah? How many times our Sheikh Effendi is saying, ‘if you are with the Ashkiye, watch what your tongue says, and when you are with the Awliya, watch what your heart is saying.’ But first you have to watch your tongue. If you don’t know how to watch your tongue you definitely don’t know how to watch your heart. We say, ‘stop.’ Okay, they stop their tongue; the heart is going, bubbling. Now at least you’re going to pull something back. Because at least with the heart, only Allah is witnessing, He may cover it. With the tongue you’re making others to be witness, do you understand? Don’t you see, in this world, if you commit a crime and there’s no witnesses, you get away, Scot free. You did a crime and you have witnesses, impossible now.

So that Christian priest is saying, ‘I looked into your jubbah and I see.’ He says, ‘what did you see?’ And he says, ‘I see what you are seeing this world is. These riches of this world. All the honor of this world, all the gold and silver of this world.’ He said, ‘that is hellfire. That is fire, and I screamed because I cannot take, my spirit cannot witness that fire.’ To witness, not even to touch that fire. And he said, ‘and I looked into your left sleeve, and I see your station in Paradise. And my spirit cannot contain that beauty because of the dirtiness that I have in my heart, and I screamed.’ The Paradise and hell, what is it that we want? How you’re living in this world right now, it is going to show where you’re going to end up. You don’t need to be a scholar or a Saint. How you’re living in this world. You’re living to have the manners of the people of Paradise. People of Paradise? One drop of arrogance, if you have, you cannot even smell the Paradise. People of Paradise, how many times we hear the Sahabi-e-kiram, Holy Prophet (asws) saying, ‘so-and-so, he achieved to high stations,’ not because he did so much, he pray so much, but because that one is humble. Because that one is not arrogant. Because that one he watches people’s rights. Showing what? Now it is showing the edep, it is showing your manners, it is showing how you must be a good person. Not just doing the things that you’re supposed to do in the name of worship.


So your dua now, if you don’t know what is outside and you don’t know what is inside,  you don’t know that all your worship that is outside that you’re doing the whole night, it can be destroyed when you are committing wrong actions, saying wrong things with your tongue, seeing wrong things, hearing wrong things, if you don’t know that, on the Day of Judgment you’re going to be in very big trouble. You think you have such a big bank account, and you look,  oh, you’re actually in deficit. So if you don’t know that, you must know, to fix it. This is what we are here for in this month especially, you call yourself murids then you’re going to be busy with that. Asking Allah for forgiveness, understanding. Once you start understanding yourself, like I said, not only asking Allah for forgiveness but asking Allah to free you. That is completely different now. You can be forgiven, but you are not free from the evil characteristics. You keep doing it again and again and again. You are forgiven, you do it again. Forgiven, you do it again. We are asking Allah for freedom. Freedom from the hellfire that we ourselves we are part of, that is coming from us. We have that kind of understanding, we are weak. Sometimes, maybe it’s going to take us our whole life to get rid of it. But if Allah SWT is praising that one ant for trying to put out that fire of Namrud with one drop of water in his mouth, do you think Allah is not going to show us, Hazreti Insan, more mercy, when the weak service that we are doing, we’re trying to put out that fire that is bigger and much more evil than the fire of Namrud, the fire of hell that we are making for ourselves?

So, Allah SWT is saying, ‘take one step towards Me and I will take ten steps towards you.’ In this month, run to Allah. You have so much support. We are asking Allah to free us, insyaAllah, we are asking Allah to forgive us, and we are asking Allah to free this ummat. We are asking Allah to send the Holy ones and the good ones insyaAllah, to make us to be with them. Wa minallahu taufiq, Al Fatiha. Amin. Selam aleykum wa rahmatullah. 

stock-vector-vector-vintage-borders-54193183 (2)Sheykh Lokman Efendi Hz  
Khalifah of SahibulSaif Shaykh Abdulkerim el Kibrisi (qs),
Osmanli Dergahi, NY
10 Ramzan 1439
May 25, 2018  stock-vector-vector-vintage-borders-54193183 (2)

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